Beware of elders ''sheppharding gifts'' allright,
There was an elders somewhere who disclosed that in the ""Shepphard the Flock'' book the elders usually come in groups of 2,,,in order to sniff-out ''apostate''' thoughts or ''doubts''.
Be extremely 'wary', when elders offer 'encouragement'' or a 'visit' with you . Just dodge them, or don't' be home.
There is an 'ulterior' motive behind the visit. Not much good can come of it.